Failure will never overtake me if my definition to succeed is strong

Failure will never overtake me: These are powerful words to tell ourselves and make it a part of our belief system. There’s no success without failure. But, if we let these failures take over us and shake our foundations, we are doomed. It all comes down to our definition of success and how strong we’ve built these foundations. These foundations will be shaken through many experiences, some of which will weaken us. We will need to find strength somehow and continue to move on. These moments demand the definition of success to be strong enough to keep us going.

Failure will never overtake me

Failure is an occurrence like many other things in our life. It is nothing more than an event or sometimes a series of events. It is only us who worry about these events and make them bigger than they deserve. Instead, if we can treat them at face value and figure out what to do next, we get better results from failure. The main thing about failure is that we shouldn’t let it overtake us. Once we take that stance, our approach, results and quality of effort also change. The main point here is to ensure that we understand failure properly and make use of it to update our efforts. (Meaning of Failure)

If my definition to succeed is strong enough

This is the crux of the quote. If we define success as not having a failure at all, we are doomed to start with. Our definition of success is about achieving the end goal and how we achieve it. Through the process, we will make a few mistakes. These mistakes act as learning points but are not something that would make us give up right away. (Related: Perseverance and success)

If the definition of success is strong enough, we will find ways to keep going. This means adapting our approach to reach the right level of success or changing our efforts accordingly. Our success is not one single event but multiple events strung together. If we find it in ourselves to relate to this meaning, we have a better chance of creating the success we need.