what if I lose?

What indeed? I mean really, what is it that you are going to lose. I have often asked myself this most times when I am at the stage of decision making, especially when I am at a conflict where I don’t know whether to do something or not. I guess there are a couple of … Read more

what do you do when people disrespect you?

People are perhaps the most inspiring and the most annoying parts of the society. I never seem to come to an unequivocal stand there. Sometimes I feel they are the best in the world, with the innocence, the amazing smiles, the camaraderie. Almost very instantly I find myself debating the negatives like the selfishness, the … Read more

what if things are uncertain?

Uncertain? Really? Well, sometimes I feel math is so much simpler and easier, it also probably is cos I really like math. But things were so simple there, the outcome was always a known one. I mean 1+1 was always 2, there was never an aberration, nothing ever changed. It was a certain outcome. Fortunately … Read more

what holds you back

Have you been in a place where someone asked you to do something and you denied saying that it is not what you think you are? Have you felt that it was below your demeanour to go out to do it and someone else should take care of it? And WHY is that? Is it … Read more

how to converse?

how to converse, how to communicate, talking to people, what to talk to people

Communication, exchange, thought ideas…. Where would we be without all of them? But everything has a start? And the question is how do we initiate a conversation. Here are a set of ideas that may help. What is the purpose of the conversation : Identify what you are trying to achieve through the conversation, whether … Read more