what do you do when people disrespect you?

People are perhaps the most inspiring and the most annoying parts of the society. I never seem to come to an unequivocal stand there. Sometimes I feel they are the best in the world, with the innocence, the amazing smiles, the camaraderie. Almost very instantly I find myself debating the negatives like the selfishness, the … Read more

what if things are uncertain?

Uncertain? Really? Well, sometimes I feel math is so much simpler and easier, it also probably is cos I really like math. But things were so simple there, the outcome was always a known one. I mean 1+1 was always 2, there was never an aberration, nothing ever changed. It was a certain outcome. Fortunately … Read more

what holds you back

Have you been in a place where someone asked you to do something and you denied saying that it is not what you think you are? Have you felt that it was below your demeanour to go out to do it and someone else should take care of it? And WHY is that? Is it … Read more

how to converse?

how to converse, how to communicate, talking to people, what to talk to people

Communication, exchange, thought ideas…. Where would we be without all of them? But everything has a start? And the question is how do we initiate a conversation. Here are a set of ideas that may help. What is the purpose of the conversation : Identify what you are trying to achieve through the conversation, whether … Read more

Charlie Chaplin: Troubles are temporary

I love this quote, Nothing is permanent in this world. I think it is a very challenging concept to agree upon. There certainly are somethings which are permanent and a lot which are definitely not. Neither our fears, nor our strengths, passions, disappointments, challenges, so on and so forth. But why is it that it … Read more

Caring is better than knowing

This can be considered a direct sledge against the perfectionists, the aficionados, the brilliant people who we have come across in our lives – those brilliant ones who have made sure they establish their brilliance every step of our lives regardless of what impact it has on the  other individual. It certainly is a great … Read more

what if it was all temporary

I have often wondered about this as I toss the question in and out. I think sometimes we give so much of importance to future, safety, security, etc etc etc that somewhere in the journey we forget about living in the present. I agree the future is equally important, sometimes more and sometimes less but … Read more

Please Make Mistakes

I love perfectionists! Perhaps the reason being that at some point of time I was trying so desperately to be one. “A life without mistakes” seemed to be the mantra, the one word which I wanted to define myself for. And truth be told – I felt I really succeeded, the marks were good, parents … Read more

We are what we wish to become

Past is a beautiful thing, it has shaped us all along, taught us a few lessons some very exciting, some quite painful and some reflective and a lot more in its journey with us. Above all, it has shaped us, made us the beautiful people we are today. And whether things could have been better … Read more

Stop worrying about what others think

I guess as the society sees a man grow, there are a lot of expectations from him, maybe in the way he behaves, the type of people he interacts with, the demeanor and the way it expects you to be. I don’t blame the society, it is also doing its innocent job of trying to … Read more