Thank you Phani, as always your comments are insightful :).. I agree, nature never is kind so that it gives us everything we want. Then I thought, it maybe a part of the broader design. I mean if we get everything we want in life, do we actually value them? Is a sense of achievement great without an understanding of what loss means? I kinda feel that it is a perfect balance of nature and it is its own way of testing how much we are worth it and how strong we are willing to become in the process.

Speaking of a way out, I think it is quite a tricky answer cos there is no one size fits all. Speaking from personal experience, I think the best way out is action, trying to identify what can be done better, done differently so that it maximizes our opportunities of getting there. And if this poses a harder challenge, then the greatest recluse is of Karmayoga, the results shall take care of themselves. You gotta believe that life is a full circle and nothing goes a waste. I think sometimes we are too focussed on what we have lost and forget the gains. If we look at the gains, I think it is more than a fair share. Perhaps sometimes it does pay to acknowledge them in that light as well and it all starts to make sense..