Comments on: What do you do when someone is angry at you?

By: Vinay Nagaraju

Vinay Nagaraju — Wed, 11 Jun 2014 06:25:24 +0000

In reply to yogi saraswat. Thank you Yogi :). I am really honored that you like the articles. And who said your English isn't good? I shall share my story with English sometime with you. Dates back to my engineering days where I was scared to death to speak, esp in English. The transformation from then to what it is today has been so fulfilling and I really have started loving this language. It did start on an embarrassing note though :)

By: yogi saraswat

yogi saraswat — Wed, 11 Jun 2014 06:11:29 +0000

Being cool is definitely a unique God blessing . you concluded your post very nicely and positively. as you know , my English is not good enough , but I read your articles any how.

By: Vinay Nagaraju

Vinay Nagaraju — Tue, 10 Jun 2014 16:14:23 +0000

In reply to Kiran Acharya. Nice to hear from you Kiran, thank you for the kind words :). I guess we do have some lovely role models to emulate from :)

By: Kiran Acharya

Kiran Acharya — Tue, 10 Jun 2014 13:48:24 +0000

My mother is very patient too. I wish I could handle someone’s anger like she does. When we are in such situations, it is difficult to remember that a person is more important.
Awesome post.

By: Vinay Nagaraju

Vinay Nagaraju — Tue, 10 Jun 2014 12:45:26 +0000

In reply to Sampat Kumari. Ha ha :D .. Thank you Sampat for the kind words :)

By: Vinay Nagaraju

Vinay Nagaraju — Tue, 10 Jun 2014 12:44:33 +0000

In reply to Seeta. Thank you Seeta! You said it :). The bigger picture does make all the difference :)

By: Vinay Nagaraju

Vinay Nagaraju — Tue, 10 Jun 2014 12:44:05 +0000

In reply to arandomstateofmind. Thank you Maniparna.. He he, well I will steer carefully when I have an argument with you then ;).. Even I loved the first part, two people in similar state of emotion, esp when it is anger cannot come to a conclusion!

By: Vinay Nagaraju

Vinay Nagaraju — Tue, 10 Jun 2014 12:42:40 +0000

In reply to Nima Das. Thank you Nima :). Nice to hear from you.. I think it is a very noble quality to withdraw during anger. Although not the easiest thing when someone is hell bent on poking you and testing your patience. But in the long run, it does make our lives easier :)

By: Vinay Nagaraju

Vinay Nagaraju — Tue, 10 Jun 2014 12:40:07 +0000

In reply to shivani. Thank you Shivani, I will make sure I will convey this to my mom :). I think we all have a pattern when there is a rage of emotions, I feel like I should walk away, I somehow feel that I have a very threatening voice when I get angry and feel that it is best to move away. Some other times, I just come back,i grab my shoes and go for a run and sometimes the high pitched music. These are a few patterns which I have noticed. God knows how many more I have. I do get the point Shivani, even I get extremely angry when people violate the road rules with total apathy. I have lost count as to how many times I thought that I should have a monster truck so that I can dent all those cars, stop and shout at those idiots who keep doing it no matter what. I have also come out with a lot of theories as to why they keep continuing to do that. But then I realize all of it makes me feel bad internally, none of those guys are gonna change, no matter how much we try to. But if they are affecting us in such a strong way, I realize maybe sometimes it is better to dissociate ourselves from the situation and act as if we dont care.. I know its not the easiest thing to do, but atleast this way I can stop feeling agitated inside.. Ha ha, I am in full support of the last two lines ;). Words of experience :P although I still want to punch someone atleast :D ..

By: Vinay Nagaraju

Vinay Nagaraju — Tue, 10 Jun 2014 12:34:19 +0000

In reply to Alok Vats. He he he :D ... Thanks Alok, I do try to be patient but when some people are hell bent on breaking it, you outta respond by breaking something right? ;)

By: Sampat Kumari

Sampat Kumari — Tue, 10 Jun 2014 11:25:02 +0000

Knowledge of Shri Vnayshree Nagraju on human psychology is appreciable

By: Seeta

Seeta — Tue, 10 Jun 2014 10:33:02 +0000

Nice one.. I used to be short tempered.. still am.. but what I do to handle is that I think of how the situation affects me… and try and see the bigger picture as such.. it usually helps me calm down