Yeah in some ways. I also think there are these phases – the good ones and the bad ones. The good ones make us aware of more blessings – the bad phases however are difficult to handle – particularly in a depressed or a low mood state – there seem to be more lessons. Maybe there’s an even balance, sometimes there is more of blessings and lessons some other. The best thing we might be able to do is to focus as much as possible on the balance and prevent ourselves getting into a shell thinking about the hardships