:D :D

Thanks Alok :). I do believe in the theory that each one of us is completely unique and need to be respected for the same. If we do something big in our lives, those achievements are personal and we do not have the right to shove it on to the society or the people around us. We did it for ourselves for the better quality of lives or maybe to answer a few questions in our lives. But that rarely has got anything to do with the other person.

Funny thing Abhijit, the officer was transferred, but for a different reason though :D ..

I guess this sort of a thing exists in the society and I am not even angry at the officers. I am really angry at the environment which has given the officer such an image and that includes me as well to a certain extent.

Its quite unfortunate Roohi but having said that I guess it happens and like it always does it keeps going on at different levels of exploitation. I don’t think I would ever blame the officers, but I would certainly blame the ones who allow them to be that larger than life image they claim for themselves. Isnt life supposed to be simple and even?

Thank you for the lively thought, it is very heartening to see an honest response and resonance of ideas. You got me there when you said even you don’t want to be sucked into the vortex of definitions. I think too much has been said about these definitions in life already. Almost to an extent that they have stopped having any meaning at all.

Thank you for the thoughts my friend, look forward to hearing more from you :)

I don’t know who you are but to tell you the truth I too am confused by all sorts of theory and definitions. When everyone has different perception how come the definitions, and theories could be universal. I was bit perplexed about these sorts of things where we are entangled in all sorts of rituals, morals etc. We try to look and judge our self through these theories. We forget to enjoy life, we fail to feel the joy in falling and then rising. We really fail to understand why we are here. Like manual attached with every new gadget, there are manuals in the form of holy books. But then again the perception changes, we don’t look at it to know the ultimate aim but to find the solution of the misery we are suffering from.
I want to join IPS, just to put forward an example that even Civil Services could be deliverd without wanting respect, name, fame or wealth. I want that in future Civil Services characterizes its name and that We all are serving someone or the other, so we should only take pride in serving to our best.
After going through your post I found that the vibrations of our thoughts are limited and it may match someone’s else :-p

Thats always there mate. Sometimes I feel that we have let them to take control of us and that is perhaps why they behave like that. If they are responsible for taking advantage of the system, I guess at some part maybe we are responsible for letting them..

In a way true Bikram, however a person and his values are inseparably related. It also depends on how you define a good person and also depends on someone being a good person and pretending to be one.

I guess a lot of things form a personality and also a lot of things which define a good or bad person. Sort of a whole definition theory which confuses me :)