That’s a really good experience Yashwanth. I think through our life we meet two very interesting kinds- one where we try and see what they do and try to do something similar cos they are so charismatic , the aura and the way they carry themselves – truly a delight to even notice and emulate. And of visit there is the other kind where we must give close attention to what they do so that we know what we shouldn’t do.. I guess those examples too are gonna be very important ;).. It’s a very interesting set of ideas , we definitely need some bad examples to see how we shape up from them :)

I like the opening phrase Yashwanth, there is no 100% or a 0%.. I am a big believer in subjectivity too, and it is absolutely spot on that complaining is a very temporary phenomenon .. And most people tend to use it that way too. But something that can define it further can be – how temporary is that temporary , how long is it going to be and how many emotions it is going to create … Food for thought isn’t it ? :)

He he he

knack for complaining or skilled complainer, which reminds my own frnd case who rejected 5 apti books complaining each book has a problem and solved not correctly or incorrect answers, each book he bot one after another ending up in not writing competitive exam itself,
this incident i do take it as a lesson and remember everytime i feel o.f complaining and to have tolerance till i made the approach clearly.
Instead of complaining about complainers, better to discard the issue and learn from it and as above usage says “Lets forget the change and change”.

In this world, there is nothing 100% and nothing 0%, complaining about eveyrthing is mere ill world in this instance. we tend negotiate with our life problem and when the intensity increases or the threshold level crosses, we tend to complain or put blame on 2nd or 3rd person or even on god. complaining is a temporal state of mind until he realizes the real cause,

True! :) The long list haha may be sometime! :P

Morning Yamini! I would love to listen to the list :).. True I think we have all been there , done some stuff.. Most importantly grown from it. But there are a helpless few who desperately want to cling on to it.. I guess for those they have to find a better way to deal with it or else life will get tougher ..

That’s so right Shivani! Fixing everything, being a perfectionist are a few words which I feel very confused about. I don’t think there will ever be a phase where everything is the way we want it to be. It takes more than that for a happy life. It is perhaps knowing that there will be some screwed up things along the way and living beyond those and not in the fear of them which makes the difference.

I like the usage – “Lets forget the change and change”. Action certain has a lot more depth and character in it compared to the mere words. Sure Shivani, will definitely have a relook, the first look didn’t show an updated poetry bit. Happy to be doing that :)

Ha ha not at all Preethi, Bring it on ;). The bigger – The better :).

He he, so true, more trivial the reasons, much weaker a representation. Always a pleasure to hear from you Preethi and long ones are my favourites :)

He he Thank you Vinodini :).. I wonder if we are getting so tired, why are people who actually complain not? ;).. He he I so agree with you, it is as if they are on a treasure hunt for the complaints or the misfortunes and a good thing is way out of the comfort zone :P

He he :D.. I agree Maniparna, it is funny to find so many people so very well skilled in it!! :D. Must be from the years of practice behind it :P