Comments on: 6 Tricks To Overcome The Fear Of Talking To People : Communication Skills, Social Skills https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/ Startup and Motivation Fri, 04 Sep 2015 09:29:40 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: Andapo https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-10435 Fri, 04 Sep 2015 09:29:40 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-10435 I completely agree with you(:… I think it is more more to be a strong you than be in fake company… rather be a loner than in a pack you are not happy… but there will be people who you will connect with in life for sure(: … yes I can understand what you say completely… at first what was hard when actually done, becomes easy(: … I am so glad you did dentified (: goodday

]]> By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-10425 Fri, 04 Sep 2015 07:30:28 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-10425 In reply to Andapo.

Quite possibly or quite possibly it is a way to connect with our fellow human beings. It is an interesting analogy with the tigers, a very interesting observation indeed. I hear you when you talk about your personal experience. In fact even I have been labelled shy and reserved for a large part of my life. I craved for attention and loved to involve with people. But it was so difficult cos I had never done it in my life and no matter what I did, I had a question at the back of my mind whether it was right or wrong. And it took a lot of time to get over that and finally come to peace with myself and decide that I had to make a shift in order to learn something totally new to me and that was something I am extremely proud of. The pride was in realising that it was no big a deal and we could learn new tricks and ideas and implement in our lives no matter how hard they sound at times. And the feeling it leaves us with is incredible :)

]]> By: Andapo https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-10406 Thu, 03 Sep 2015 10:23:40 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-10406 This is smartness I guess(: … but I think as society we are really hard on accepting people for what they are that’s why all the problems… For instance as a kid since I was not such a cool persona, there were judgements formed, like the creature is boring and stupid, lets stay away from the creature… this was just a example… I think it depends on how you grow socially when young… thats why parents should put the kid in some activity which helps…it could be sports, it could be cycling. story telling, anything…so they develope some confidence and face the world outside with more confidence, because trust me everyone can achieve a lot, if they do things accordingly…anyway… sometimes you learn it the hard way, I think as you face society or get social, you meet all sorts of people face them and adapt(:… did you know about the news a male tiger refused to mate with another female tiger because he was shy, as he never been with female tigers before and females scare him(:… if it applies to tiger the social anxiety how much it will apply to us, much more correct?… I wonder what happened to that tiger did he get over his female shyness?

]]> By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-10395 Thu, 03 Sep 2015 03:26:34 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-10395 In reply to Andapo.

True mate, I think more importantly it is the comfort level which we create for ourselves, the confidence we present ourselves with for the activities we do. No wonder it takes some effort cos social skills do not come that easy. Even for me, I had to stretch a bit to learn these skills and implement them in my life. It now feels simpler in hindsight but it sure did take a lot of effort. I think the greatest trait of a personality is flexibility and if we are able to reach that without much of a hassle, we are headed for a quality social life after all :)

]]> By: Andapo https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-10382 Wed, 02 Sep 2015 08:49:43 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-10382 Well… actually most of them are shy and difficult or uncomfortable talking to another gender, or date stuff… that apart social skills… well first lets all be loose and be happy with one self to connect to another. You are who you are, looks, dressing, speech.. that’s one part… your attitude, views another part… first have some attractive qualities people will get attracted to, maybe your sweet, you listen, your helpful, you won’t fight, your trust worthy and just mingle with the group in silence. Simple(:… I guess its being cool, let’s be less sensitive, there will be petty jerks around but don’t let them drown you about(: … also if you get nervous do something that relaxes you, perhapes break the ice talking about anything that interests people maybe pets, some news…some pleasant gossip… also indulge in group activities, that way you don’t need to talk to person but work along with them and you will get friendly. Say your in office – sit with the forks to have tea, have lunch with them, stand by them, one day you will be called upon… ask them neutral questions nothing that would embarass them… I am really social aloof person a lot(: … at schools I remember kids staying away from me, beating me up and I never made friends at all at school which is weird… but I guess it takes effort, at a young age people look at you different than as you grow up people are less picky and can afford to keep you associated as a lesser level friend because everyone matters in making your life a little better… I would definitely say for adults things are easier to connect with people, making friends is something very personal and induvial… chalo anyway… never feel out of place if someone does something cooler than you, always feel you are good the way you are, even if your good in nothing(:… some people want people who do nothing and are peaceful, and want someone reliable just for company, if you be it, you will have company somewhere where you go… keep observing though and develope these social skills(:…comes in handy all the time… and don’t be afraid of doing something that seems ah… crazy… a strange outing like marathon, volunteer, go around some community events, infact go to any festival weather you know the person that well or not, even party and observe and try to have fun, if you comfortable with yourself, crowd will take you in. I went in months back for my friends marriage I am not close to now, but was years ago because she was my roommate, she had some trouble recognizing me, even than she was joyful. I was happy in the crowd who I knew nothing about, enjoyed the food, the juices, and watched the marriage proceedings, and slept inbetween too as I felt sleepy, I had a great time!!… and no I did not feel odd a bit(:… try to develope this exploring urge and this need to have somebody with you all the time… then I think somewhere social skills will come in… ok anyway…perhapes I am blabbering, I am not so right person for any social discussion.

]]> By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-10090 Fri, 21 Aug 2015 03:22:52 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-10090 In reply to manisha thakur.

Thank you Manisha. Happy that you liked the post, this segment is our proudest one and the most productive one the way we like to see it. GLad to know that you find them useful :)

]]> By: manisha thakur https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-10013 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 17:50:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-10013 hey vijay this is always a great blog for me, i found lot of new things from your website, keep sharing more article like this. thanks for sharing

]]> By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-9266 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 19:39:36 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-9266 In reply to Nikhil.

Thank you Nikhil. All these posts have come out as a part of our experience and the books and articles we have read and most importantly observing people who are doing it at the highest level.

I understand the challenges of an entrepreneur. The post on how to speak better will be able to help you with this

We didnt take too many days and yet we did take too many days to solve this issue, but it was all worth it to know what works and what doesn’t. The tricks are so simple that they can be implemented in a day, but it does take a bit of effort to maintain and remember it on a consistent basis

]]> By: Nikhil https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-9071 Thu, 02 Jul 2015 20:09:55 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-9071 Very good and informative post.

However I am completely zero in verbal communication.

How did you research so deeply about these parameters?

Did you take many days to find out the ways to tackle these tricky situations?

Anyway for an introvert to overcome the problems of ‘breaking ice’ second time?

First time is easy but second and third time is the hardest for an introvert!

]]> By: babalalex https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-8795 Wed, 24 Jun 2015 16:30:41 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-8795 In reply to Vinay Nagaraju.

yess very true……suggested things are not always easy…

]]> By: Preethi https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-8793 Wed, 24 Jun 2015 13:47:13 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-8793 In reply to Hemu.

Thank you Hemu. Yeah, I guess everybody loves meeting new people :)

]]> By: Preethi https://inspire99.com/6-tricks-to-overcome-the-fear-of-talking-to-people-communication-skills-social-skills/#comment-8792 Wed, 24 Jun 2015 13:44:47 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8180#comment-8792 Thank you Maniparna :)

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