Comments on: 6 Things To Do When People Talk Behind Your Back https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/ Startup and Motivation Wed, 20 Dec 2023 15:19:26 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: Dr Sweety Shinde https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7882 Mon, 27 Apr 2015 17:03:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7882 In reply to Vinay Nagaraju.

True. So the real purpose of gossip is speaking softly enough so that it reaches the right ears by the longest possible route.

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By: Alok Singhal https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7832 Tue, 21 Apr 2015 21:22:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7832 In reply to Vinay Nagaraju.

Absolutely!

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By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7827 Tue, 21 Apr 2015 11:03:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7827 In reply to Gowthama Rajavelu.

Thank you Gowthama. Good to see you again :). I guess it all comes to that question right – the productivity of an action. Esp when we are investing so much of energy in talking to someone, we need to understand whether they will receive it or not. I would rather sit home and watch TV instead of trying to convince someone who is not even ready to listen..

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By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7826 Tue, 21 Apr 2015 11:02:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7826 In reply to Arun Prasadh.

Thank you Arun :).. I guess each one of these ideas take the stage in their own ways. The last one certainly is the climax and I guess it gives the most effect :)

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By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7824 Tue, 21 Apr 2015 11:01:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7824 In reply to Najm Nisa.

Thank you Najm. Great to see you here. I was missing your thoughts on the posts :). Thanks so much, I have started liking to write posts in this format and it somehow seems to find the right chord with our friends here at inspire99 and also the motto we try to believe in – simplifying thoughts :).

I think those are the only ones who matter, the ones we care about cos that is the one place where we have to be as delicate as possible. It is very easy to tell a stranger if they were rude or wrong, but when it comes to the close ones, nothing ever seems easy.

He he welcome back on the social media. It will be lovely to connect more with you :)

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By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7825 Tue, 21 Apr 2015 11:01:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7825 In reply to Dr Sweety Shinde.

Thank you Sweety :).. He he, well words have a way of traveling around. The grape wine is way stronger than the ears at the back of our heads. Some way or the other we get to know – or else there wouldn’t be any gossips at all :)

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By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7823 Tue, 21 Apr 2015 10:59:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7823 In reply to Alok Singhal.

Thank you Alok :). True mate, I guess that is beauty of experiences in life – they make us introspect and wonder how we can change to strengthen ourselves and lead us to a better place. Or else, there is no use of such an experience right?!

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By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7822 Tue, 21 Apr 2015 10:58:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7822 In reply to Abhijit Ray.

Thank you Abhijit :). True that, people will always be and do what they want to do. Sometimes the more they know we are irritated, the more they do it – maybe it does give a sense of pleasure in doing something which is forbidden! The spice of life sure gets annoying sometimes though :)

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By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7821 Tue, 21 Apr 2015 10:56:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7821 Thank you Lata. This post is the brainchild of Preethi Aghalayam who has done an amazing post out of this :)

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By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7819 Tue, 21 Apr 2015 10:55:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7819 That’s a very mature attitude to look at life Indrani. Time I believe is the most precious thing in the world and the more care we take about it, the better we become at handling things in life :)

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By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7820 Tue, 21 Apr 2015 10:55:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7820 Thank you Saurabh. Welcome to Inspire99 :)

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By: Najm Nisa https://inspire99.com/6-things-to-do-when-people-talk-behind-your-back-social-skills-making-friends-communication-skills/#comment-7804 Mon, 20 Apr 2015 15:05:00 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=7438#comment-7804 Very thoughtful.Laughing it off and ignoring is the hardest thing when people talk behind our backs :/. I love it how you simplify and explain everything step by step , i like the part where you explained why we should tolerate and understand the reason for the talking done by the people we care for :) Look forward for more such thoughtful posts and I am definitely going to read all the blogposts I missed reading on inspire99 during my 15 day no social media interaction period :D

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