Comments on: 10 Tips To Speak Better And More Effectively https://inspire99.com/10-tips-to-speak-better-and-more-effectively/ Startup and Motivation Fri, 28 Aug 2015 13:56:21 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/10-tips-to-speak-better-and-more-effectively/#comment-10261 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 13:56:21 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8326#comment-10261 In reply to Andapo.

Thank you Andapo. I certainly agree with your thought here, it is a hard task to get there on the stage and keep everyone occupied. I hear you about the cheap sense of humour in the name of stand up comedy and even I hate it to the core and I would be with you in running away from such an auditorium at once. One can never underestimate the effort involved in making a stage presence and a talk. It takes a lot more than it appears, it takes years of practice and sometimes the concern for our audience. Though I have loved the stage and been on it, I still feel butterflies in my stomach and each time I go out to talk I realize that there are so many faults I need to work on which makes me appreciate the entire effort and stage presence even more. I have the highest regard for some of these amazing talkers, some which I have witnessed in TED TALKS, some in political debates and some in extempores. It makes me look at them in awe and wonder. I am completely against a cheap attention seeking protagonist. I would stay in a speech only if there is something useful for me at the end of it and if the person occupying the stage doesn’t cater to that, then there is no point in him making the speech at all

]]> By: Andapo https://inspire99.com/10-tips-to-speak-better-and-more-effectively/#comment-10254 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 09:14:01 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8326#comment-10254 Well…these tips are all good… but wen speaking one has to be prepared, one has to tell it in a interesting way too… with real life incidents, one must engage with the audience and not take over completely… be unpredictable… I have seen some stand up commedy acts and they all do these things…except they make fun of you if your the audience caught… nowadays I don’t find the commedies funny, they just cater to the local audience and they think they interested all in some things – bollywood, girls, pubs, marriage, weight… all common ones I am bored to hear of so not watching… still one can be funny if you genuienly are… I love making a fool of myself because I am genuienly funny or can be silly and don’t mind it… but lot of them in Indian society take things wrong and everybody are super opiniated and critical…so if your speaking to a unknown audience and you want to connect you got to fake some things just to please them… they do it all the time in sitcoms don’t they?, actors do it too?, they tell things that please audience… but if its a audience you know as in similar with attitudes or can accept what your saying, you can be more free in what you do. Anhyway good points… know your subject, connect with the audience, and be confident, are tips in a nutshell. I have heard some brilliant guys speak(:…that I can listen to them all day… but I belong to the mature audience looking for quality rather than cheap entertainment and I wish there are more people to entertain audience looking for good entertainment(:…we would love the speaker or entertainer genuienly for life(: then …anyway

]]> By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/10-tips-to-speak-better-and-more-effectively/#comment-9249 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 19:22:44 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8326#comment-9249 In reply to suraj.

Thanks Suraj!

]]> By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/10-tips-to-speak-better-and-more-effectively/#comment-9246 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 19:21:08 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8326#comment-9246 In reply to Mayuresh.

Awesome! It is really nice to know that you follow most of these steps Mayuresh. A 50% plus follow up on these is a great deal indeed. We often recommend just that cos it simply is too difficult to look at a 100% esp on these social behaviors.

I couldn’t agree more mate. Body language and eye contact do make a lot of difference in making people feel more connected and comfortable with us. The more consciously we do it, the better we get at it. A clever mix of that and gestures is bound to take the conversation the right way.

]]> By: Vinay Nagaraju https://inspire99.com/10-tips-to-speak-better-and-more-effectively/#comment-9235 Sun, 12 Jul 2015 19:09:09 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8326#comment-9235 In reply to Gowtham.

Thank you Gowtham. I agree, eye contact does make a lot of difference, the body language, gestures, eye contacts are very important ways to keep someone glued to a conversation. It makes one feel more connected and more into the conversation or else things get really boring and to a certain extent annoying as well.

]]> By: Gowtham https://inspire99.com/10-tips-to-speak-better-and-more-effectively/#comment-9211 Sat, 11 Jul 2015 11:42:43 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8326#comment-9211 Very useful post Vinay. All the 10 points are very necessary while lecturing. One thing I would like to add here, eye contact. It is very important. If it is a huge gathering, we can see the last row so every others come into our territory. Nice post.

]]> By: Mayuresh https://inspire99.com/10-tips-to-speak-better-and-more-effectively/#comment-9180 Thu, 09 Jul 2015 15:06:58 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8326#comment-9180 Out of 10 I nearly follow 5 to 6 points everyday in my conversation….feeling good about it…
I think while speaking to a person we should try looking eye to eye it gives conversation lot more meaning…yes but If someone is feeling shy…please look here n there:) ….what say Vinay???

]]> By: suraj https://inspire99.com/10-tips-to-speak-better-and-more-effectively/#comment-9175 Thu, 09 Jul 2015 06:45:41 +0000 http://inspire99.com/?p=8326#comment-9175 NICE POST,GREAT.

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